Monday, June 29, 2020

Dumpster diving.

My wife has been in a "blue funk" since last Sunday. An associate of mine has been swimming in that same murky water mentally. I guess 2020 has contributed to an increase in wine sales. In the long run, downing your troubles in a bottle won't help. 

It has been a weird and awfully traumatic year. We all react to this drama in different ways.  Most men just lash out and throw fits. Women tend to sulk and internalize their angst. Of course, this is a generalization. However, you react or interact with the craziness is ultimately your choice. 

Stay safe and keep calm, this too shall pass. 

I lived through the '60s.

Monday, June 22, 2020

Recommended reading

Wow, it was just fourteen years ago when I left the school book business. I had been selling classroom reading paperbacks to schools for twenty years. But I had to get out of the book business because public schools were not using books in the classroom. They would cover a few pages of a book in the textbook anthology. Several reasons were given for this general lack of teaching whole books in the classroom. Standardized testing and shorter attention spans of students often were cited as reasons for this trend.

It's become apparent in this current political climate that a trio of my best sellers then needs to be read and taught now.  Animal Farm, 1984, and Lord of the Flies read like today's headlines. These books are warnings, but in today's world, one might think that if they were read at all, they were taught and read as "how too" books.

Animal Farm lampooned socialism as self-destructive. The book tells the story of a group of farm animals who rebel against their human farmer, hoping to create a society where the animals can be equal, free, and happy. However, things don't go well as the ideal doesn't line up with the human or fictional animal heart, symbolized by the pig's power grab. Socialism flat out doesn't and didn't work. Or as the socialist today would postulate: hell is a good system just run by bad people.

Lord of the Flies is CHOP ar CHAZ or whatever the soy boys and other assorted spoiled brats in Antifa call it.  It has almost imploded in a matter of weeks. "During five undercover days and nights in the zone, I witnessed a continuing experiment in anarchy, chaos and brute-force criminality," wrote Andy Ngo, an undercover journalist, just a few weeks into the temper-tantrum of ill-mannered and poorly raised children. Not unlike Lord of the Flies.

1984, wow, it reads like today's news headlines. Statues being removed, history is rewritten, words are being removed from the dictionary, and the Thought Police are everywhere. Just a few sample quotes:


“What can you do, thought Winston, against the lunatic who is more intelligent than yourself; who gives your arguments a fair hearing and simply persists in his lunacy?”

“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”

“The best books . . .  are those that tell you what you know already.”

“If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself.”

“Doublethink means the power of holding two contradictory beliefs in one's mind simultaneously, and accepting both of them.”

“Until they become conscious they will never rebel, and until after they have rebelled they cannot become conscious.”

“If you loved someone, you loved him, and when you had nothing else to give, you still gave him love.”

“Power is in tearing human minds to pieces and putting them together again in new shapes of your own choosing.”

“Big Brother is Watching You.”

“It's a beautiful thing, the destruction of words.”

“Of pain you could wish only one thing: that it should stop. Nothing in the world was so bad as physical pain. In the face of pain there are no heroes.”

“The object of terrorism is terrorism. The object of oppression is oppression. The object of torture is torture. The object of murder is murder. The object of power is power. Now do you begin to understand me?”

“One does not establish a dictatorship in order to safeguard a revolution; one makes the revolution in order to establish the dictatorship.”

“There was truth and there was untruth, and if you clung to the truth even against the whole world, you were not mad.”

“We know that no one ever seizes power with the intention of relinquishing it.”

“The masses never revolt of their own accord, and they never revolt merely because they are oppressed. Indeed, so long as they are not permitted to have standards of comparison, they never even become aware that they are oppressed.”

Scarry right! Those that remain may not have any books to read, they must memorize them so they won't be lost like Fahrenheit 451.

Monday, June 15, 2020

A house divided.

Abraham Lincoln gave a speech in 1858 in which he first utters these words about the United States,  "A house divided against itself cannot stand."  Lincoln's words would have been familiar to his audience as a statement by Jesus recorded in all three synoptic gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke). He was directly addressing the issue of the United States divide on slavery.

Some 160 years later, the U. S. could put a man on the moon and become the world's greatest superpower, and yet we are here in 2020 a house divided.  Maybe the grand experiment of our founding fathers has run its course. Only time will tell. I am becoming more pessimistic by the day.

 The media and politicians abandoned any interest in doing anything other than fanning the flames of division to gather groups to their side. Don't count on the churches and education to bring any neutrality. They are the root cause of the tribal divisions.

There used to be what Vice-President. Spiro Agnew referred to as the "silent majority" those in America who had no time for political causes. They were the ones who just went to work, raised their families, paid their taxes, and shut up. I wonder if there is the silent majority left.

If one spends time on social media, the polarization gets magnified. The silent majority doesn't usually waste time there.

Even Americans with masks and those without are at each others throats.

I am afraid that the situation is going to get worse before it gets better.
I look at history and see the Bolsivic and French Revolution's and I am afraid we have all the makings of that kind of collapse.

I can only hope that cooler heads prevail and peace can break out across our land.

Even "In God, We Trust" is a dividing issue. So short of Devine intervention, we are headed toward self-destruction.

Monday, June 8, 2020

Everyone's talking, and no one is listening.

Listen to the lyrics to Sounds of Silence, written by Paul Simon in 1964. 

And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening

To me, that sounds like people walking around texting, tweeting, or posting on their smartphones; Paul Simon was a prophet. Not only are they not listening to one another, but they also are not even trying for the most part to dialog. 

Most of social media is just shouting our opinions at each other. The one's who agree with us we friend and like. They can validate our assumptions; this leads to confirmation bias. The ones we disagree with we block, unfriend. But before we do, there is the tendency to call them a derogatory name because they were not smart enough to agree with us. 

We half listen, and we do that with bias and tendency to infer and read into the context of what they are saying. We as people love to make judgments, and at the same time, we are terrible at it.

We never pick up the phone and try to get to the bottom of an issue. That could facilitate real dialog and understanding. But then you would have to speak when talking and listen to hear.

Monday, June 1, 2020

If you 're going through hell keep going

The title is a quote attributed to Winston Churchill. Here is a good article from a few years back read it here: https://www.forbes.com/sites/geoffloftus/2012/05/09/if-youre-going-through-hell-keep-going-winston-churchill/#5247f42cd549

I have to think that when you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel and all seems as bad as it can get, remember you are not alone. I faced these moments three times in my life, and I would like to share some advice of my own. 

Whatever situation you are in don't go it alone. The problem becomes compounded because when you are in this bad place, no one wants you to drag them down with you. Like the drowning person, they must quit struggling in order to be saved. If you are fighting and flailing at whatever got you in the dark place, let it go. Easier said than done, for sure. 

My understanding of hell from a Biblical perspective is that it is dark, hot, and lonely. It sounds like a "Back Hole in Space." Please don't go there for sure (see John 3:16), but when life seems to meets this criteria, turn it around. Do the opposite of what you're doing. 

Don't expect immediate relief. Living life in this place is like learning in a slow-cooker, not a microwave. You didn't get to this place all at once, and you won't climb out all at once. 

Embrace the moment of each day and say to yourself, "Someday, I'll look back at this experience and know I can keep going."

Transitioning (no not that lol)

 We are moving to a Word Press site, and this is one reason we haven't posted in a while.  I will be blogging at our new site and will c...